I watched a very interesting episode of Oprah’s Life Class about “Colorism.” The term was foreign to me, and probably is to you. It refers to the prejudices within communities of Color who favor lighter skin tones over dark. Many of the darker-skinned ladies on Oprah’s show were suffering terribly. They cried, describing their feelings of total insecurity and ugliness.

Being a white lady, I’ve obviously never experienced Colorism. Race isn’t really an issue in the Jewish Community, so it’s assumed we don’t have our own prejudices towards other Jews.

Wrong…

There’s a tremendous amount of silent prejudice towards “Jewish Features.” Those who appear more ethnic (by that I mean curly hair and the stereotypical big nose), are viewed as being less worthy.

My own family doesn’t have a typical “Jewish” look. My sisters and I all have naturally straight hair and delicate features. Because I grew up in Rural New England, most people assumed we’re Irish. Nobody could tell I was Jewish unless I wanted them to. With my extended family, it’s an entirely different story. Because they look “Classically Jewish,” they’re deemed the Ugly Ducklings. Sad, huh? And all too common.

Personally, I think this is crazy! Beauty takes so many shapes and sizes. I see it in every single race and ethnicity. One shouldn’t have to fit some Aryan nightmare mold to be considered attractive.  We need to celebrate who we are. God doesn’t make mistakes. Black ladies don’t have to pass the “paper bag test,” and Jewish ladies don’t need nose jobs.

God never created a mistake. However you look is more than acceptable, it’s beautiful. You don’t need a plastic surgeon, peroxide, or 6-inch heels. You just need to be you!

Have you ever felt discriminated against due to physical appearance?