Hollywood pariah Roseanne Barr has at least one passionate defender: fame-hungry, celebrity stalking Rabbi Shmuley. It started with a rambling sob-fest on the Rabbi’s podcast (very softball interview), and then continued with more excuses during an appearance on The View.
In response to Joy’s grilling about the infamous tweet, the Rabbi claimed that Roseanne is a “serious practitioner of Judaism and a serious scholar of Judaism.” (Say what?!) “Where is the forgiveness?” he demanded to know, adding, “Roseanne has fully repented.”
This is so wrong, on so many levels, I barely know where to start.
The Rabbi is either extremely misinformed or completely hoodwinked, because nothing he said is factual. First off, Roseanne is not serious about Judaism, has never been active in Jewish organizations, activities, or charities, and I doubt she studies Torah and Talmud on a regular basis. Her “commitment” to Israel and Judaism is so strong she willingly dressed up as Hitler, removing burnt gingerbread men cookies from an oven. Her only contribution to the Jewish community, if we can call it that, was creating a new member when she encourage Tom Arnold to convert before their wedding.
Roseanne has apologized, yes, but she refuses to take responsibility for her behavior. Anyone who likes to Tweet, and I do, has written dumb stuff in the heat of the moment. Tweeting while tired or intoxicated tends to end in tragedy. Maybe she was drinking and on Ambien; I don’t know. But I doubt she was also impaired when she took the Hitler photo, or when she disrespected America by screeching the National Anthem, spitting, and grabbing herself in a vulgar fashion.
Maybe some would call her antics shock comedy. I call it gross, lewd, and hateful. Nobody should tweet that someone is an ape, regardless of their race; it’s insulting and wrong. If she disagrees with Valerie Jarrett’s politics, that’s fine, but there is a right way to have a debate and name calling shouldn’t be involved.
Rabbi Shmuely says that he has known Roseanne for 20 years. If that’s true, why hasn’t he helped her during that time? She has been on a downward spiral for decades, struggling with addiction, severe mental illness, multiple divorces, promoting wild conspiracy theorists, attempting a failed run for the US presidency, and that’s just skimming the surface.
Should people be forgiven for their mistakes? Of course. Every year, we dedicate an entire day to repentance (Yom Kippur.) I’ll be the first one to admit that I make mistakes and I’m not perfect. But a big part of forgiveness is behavior modification. If we continuously repeat the same bad actions, we’re not truly sorry.
Roseanne is not sorry about the content of her tweet; she is sorry the Tweet backfired. Rabbi Shmuley is smart enough to know this and should be brave enough to admit it. She is wrong for doing it, he is wrong for defending it, and I’m not a fan of either one.