There is something about a well-dressed child that makes every mom’s heart flutter. From the moment a baby is born (or even still in utero!), most ladies dream of all the adorable clothes they will buy—and buy we do, especially for the first child. Predictably, we go overboard and many items, still with tags on, won’t even be touched…

When shopping for kids, I’ve learned the hard way that it’s best to buy a simple wardrobe. Little people grow very quickly and are notoriously hard on clothes, so it doesn’t make much sense to buy a lot. Natural fiber, medium-weight fabrics that can be worn year-round provide the most mileage (with layers added in winter). Needs will vary according to climate and lifestyle, but here is a basic overview:

Boy’s Sample Closet:

• 4 pairs of pants (2 jeans, 2 khakis)
• 4 pairs of shorts
• 6 long sleeve shirts (combo of collared & casual)
• 6 short sleeve shirts
• 2 sweatshirts or sweaters
• 1 light jacket
• 1 heavy coat
• 2 swim trunks
• 1 pair of sandals
• 1 pair of sneakers
• 1 pair of boots
• 1 pair dress shoes

Girl’s Sample Closet:

• 4 pairs of pants (2 jeans, 2 khakis)
• 3 pairs of shorts
• 3 skirts
• 3 dresses
• 6 long sleeve shirts 
• 6 short sleeve shirts
• 2 sweatshirts or sweaters
• 1 light jacket
• 1 heavy coat
• 2 swimsuits
• 1 pair of sandals
• 1 pair of sneakers
• 1 pair of boots
• 1 pair dress shoes

Socks, underwear, and PJ’s will be needed in larger quantities, but again don’t over-buy. 10 pairs of each is reasonable, provided you’re doing laundry weekly and can keep up.

Now that you know what you need, the question is where to shop? Personally, I have tried it all from Goodwill to Neiman Marcus (bought on clearance with a coupon, of course!). While I prefer used for special occasion clothes, I do buy new for daily wear.

Gymboree – Well-made, holds up over time (important if you have more than one child), and stylish. They have constant sales and free shipping, making this an affordable option.

L.L. Bean – This has always been the gold standard for winter gear, particularly for New Englanders like me. Coats and boots are what made them famous—for a reason. They have a full replacement guarantee, top quality construction, and excellent customer service. Don’t expect rock-bottom prices, but it’s worth the cost.

Gap outlet – Same styles as the regular store at a fraction of the cost. Great for sweats, jeans, and tops. I have found incredible deals in January like $1.00 hoodies on clearance.

Target – Regular sales, clearance racks, and plenty of Cartwheel offers make for a good deal. The quality isn’t top-notch, but it’s fine for basics and cheapies like flip flops.

Ebay – New and used items, updated daily. I have both bought and sold, with mixed results. Only buy from sellers with good ratings, detailed descriptions, and a clear return policy.

Do your kids have lots of clothes or only a few?