Picking one set of names for a baby is hard enough; for most Jewish parents, whose children receive both secular and Hebrew names, it can be a real conundrum.

Is it best to pick something mainstream or select something totally unique? Such a tough decision can lead to a lot of angst and hand wringing. In an effort to help parents with this common problem, Kveller has compiled a list of 9 Jewish Baby Names You’ve Never Heard of But Are Going to Love.

Sounds cool, right? I thought so… until I saw the list:

1. Amatzya

2. Anael

3. Zisse

4. Yudel

5. Yifat

6. Kriendel

7. Kfir

8. Otniel.

9. Emunah

Seriously, Kveller? Normally, I love that site and most of their articles, but I have to disagree with that list. Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t like any of them, nor do I think a child would, either.

Names are highly personal; I get that. Many are also sentimental which I respect. Still, it’s important to be honest: most of us do not like our religious moniker, especially if it’s old fashioned/unpopular/weird, etc. (I’m certainly in that club, having been called “Pessel Leah” which I never felt any affection for whatsoever.)

Do I think every baby should be a David or a Rachel? Of course not. But I would caution picking a name that’s unheard of or difficult to spell/pronounce. Kids have a strong desire to fit it and names can be a big part of their identity. 

Weigh in on the name debate. Play it safe or pick something wild?