The Worst Sort of Jewish Self-Hatred

Because Anti-Semitism is such a widespread problem and threat to our community, it’s a topic discussed regularly here on the blog. While it’s true that the overwhelming majority of anti-Semites happen to be Gentiles, there is a very real, very sad, and very sick phenomenon that certain misguided Jews suffer from. Yes, I’m talking about Jewish self-hatred.

This form of insanity has probably been around since the beginning of Jewish history and quite frankly, it’s often glossed over. We assume that because someone is Jewish they are proud of their heritage (sadly, for a minority, they are actually ashamed to be Jewish! Shocking, I know!) These self-haters are the biggest disgrace and I actually have more contempt for them because they should know better.

Take this particularly bewildering case for example: an article of filth, lies, and delusion titled, “I am a light-skinned Jew. I am not ‘white.’

Aside from making my blood boil by the awful implications presented, it’s simply just nonsense. Judaism is a Nation and it is a People, but we are not a race! An individual can be White, Black, Asian, Latino and be Jewish, all at the same time. The darkest skinned Ethiopian and the lightest skinned Russian are both equally Jewish. Their color is not an issue! Anyone, of any color, is welcome to be part of the Jewish community and I love every type.

I can tell you from personal history that most Ashkenazi Jews are indeed White people. My own skin color is the fairest shade of porcelain. My father had blonde hair and green eyes as a child. My aunt, his older sister, has red hair and blue eyes. If we are not White, I’d love to hear someone explain (accurately) which race we supposedly are. (Obviously, we are Caucasian!)

By claiming that Jews are a different race entirely, separate and apart from everyone else on Earth, this just adds fuel to our enemies fire. It promotes the worst stereotypes and encourages violence and hatred towards the Jewish community. And to think that a Jew is the one doing it? My Lord, this is so sick I have trouble wrapping my mind around the concept!

As a society, we must stop judging people based on their race, religion, creed, or gender. I’m a Jewish American, I’m a white American, I am a female American, but above all, I am just an American! My race, my gender, and my religion are all parts of me, but I shouldn’t be reduced to just one of them.

I say this so often, I probably sound like a broken record, but we need to come together in unity, with friendship, and tolerance, and understanding for all. No more division, no more lies, no more hatred—just pure love, the way God loves us, and teaches us to love each other.

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Stress-Free Family Travel Tips

Getting ready to hit the road or the friendly skies soon? (My own family is planning a week-long trip in August for 10 people, and yes, I’m already overwhelmed just thinking about it!) This guest post from Kristy Rodriguez of Pure Nurture is full of stress-free family travel trips that will help minimize the hassle and maximize the fun.

 

This summer, more than 82% of Americans will take a family trip, according to the annual study conducted by Gas Buddy. While vacation can be fun for kids, studies have found that it’s often stressful and exhausting for parents. Luckily, it doesn’t have to be, with proper planning. These self-care travel tips are inexpensive, easy to find and helpful for the entire family!

Self-massage with a tennis or lacrosse ball:

These can be used to massage your back, neck, or hamstrings by resting the ball between your body part and a wall or floor, or even just holding it in your hand.

Essential oils for relaxation and rejuvenation:

Plug into a car diffuser and enjoy some uplifting, de-stressing or relaxing scents. My favorite oils for travel are lavender for relaxation, orange for a mood boost and peppermint for an energy boost.

Coloring books (adult and kid varieties):

They say coloring is the next best thing to meditation, so pack up some colored pencils, crayons, and/or markers along with plain paper or coloring books for you and the kids.

Bring your own snacks:

Highway gas stations and airports are two of the most challenging places to find healthy snacks! Grab a small bag and pack your own—ones that will keep your blood sugar and mood stable, as well as boosting your immune system, which is really important when you’re traveling. Aim for a nutrient-dense variety of items like fresh fruit, trail mix, and cereal bars, preferably the low-sugar kind.

Try a Kids’ club:

All-inclusive resorts can be a great option. Check out kid-friendly resorts in Mexico, the Dominican Republic and Jamaica that  are relatively low cost. Food is included, which means you won’t be paying for a meal that your kids don’t end up eating (I know this situation very well). The kids’ clubs offer fun for all ages. While your kids are having a great time, you will have some down time to do whatever fills you up—reading on the beach, taking a nap, getting a massage, etc.

These are just a few ideas to help make your next family getaway feel more like a vacation and less like a trip. The better care you take of yourself, the better you’ll feel . . . and the more energy you’ll have to keep up with your kids, giving you a better chance of coming home feeling more relaxed and refreshed.

About the Author:

Kristy Rodriguez, pre- and postnatal wellness expert and advocate, is the owner and founder of Pure Nurture, a business devoted to educating and inspiring women to nurture and nourish themselves through pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. As a Holistic Health Coach and Registered Yoga Teacher, Kristy works with individual clients, as well as teaching classes and workshops, both in person and online. She is also the author of Pure Nurture: A Holistic Guide to a Healthy Baby.

Chuck Woolery Anti-Semitism “Controversy”

There seems to be a lot of controversy lately about what constitutes anti-Semitism. The subject in question who stirred up this mess is none other than former Love Connection host Chuck Woolery. (Anyone reading this and laughing, I also share your amusement…and confusion. I seriously did a double take when I heard it.)

Mr. Woolery is vocal about his conservative affiliation and enjoys discussing politics on his podcast and social media. No problem there, as we’re all entitled to our own views. What then, started the chaos? This tweet:

“Believe it or not. Karl Marx and Vladimir Lenin were both Jewish. I was shocked to find, most of the original Soviet Communists were Jewish.”

Obviously, talking about Jews and Communists dredges up all kinds of ancient history and hurt feelings. Is there a strange, untrue stereotype that all Jews are Communists or secretly support them? Unfortunately, many misguided folks believe it. Let’s set the record straight, once and for all: Did certain members of the Communist party have Jewish ancestry? Yes, absolutely. But nobody, in their right mind, would think it’s possible to be a practicing Jew and a practicing Communist simultaneously! Those ideologies are just not compatible. (And, since we’re discussing it, I want to go on record and state that I despise every single thing about Communism and I do mean every! I am a proud American that supports Capitalism.)

While I have no way of knowing what’s in Chuck Woolery’s heart, I will say with 100% certainty, this is nothing like Mel Gibson’s sick, vile, repeated attacks on the Jewish community. Gibson is, without a doubt, a true anti-Semite and an enemy of Israel and the Jewish community. Chuck Woolery, is not, to my knowledge, a Holocaust denier, does not disparage the Jewish people, etc.

Those of us who have experienced anti-Semitism firsthand understand the true nature of such evil and would never make apologies for despicable behavior. I would condemn it with my last breath, and I think the majority of folks, Jews and Gentiles alike, would do the same.

If we label any statement we dislike as Anti-Semitism, it diminishes true prejudice. Instead of worrying about political correctness and tripping over every tweet that a has-been actor types, I’d rather focus on the sickos that vandalize cemeteries and make bomb threats and actually shoot innocent people. Those are the real and dangerous anti-Semites that we must focus our attention on and try to stop.

 

Readers are welcome to chime in. Do you think the controversy over Chuck Woolery’s tweets is much ado about nothing or true anti-Semitism?