While Purim is my favorite Jewish holiday, there is one thing about it that I dislike: An excess of alcohol, and the problems that can result from overindulging.

Because it’s the only holiday that actually encourages unrestrained drinking, many folks take it to an unfortunate extreme, especially the young people. This can cause dire consequences like car accidents, domestic disputes, property damage and unwise (possibly unwanted) romantic encounters.

There is nothing wrong with having a good time. We are meant to celebrate and enjoy ourselves. That doesn’t mean, however, that we can drink ourselves into a coma and pretend it’s ok. Many people have experienced firsthand what happens when too much alcohol is combined with too little common sense (it’s not pretty!).

All of the guidelines I’ve seen recommend no more than 2 drinks per day for women. Doubling that amount to 4 drinks during a holiday celebration may be risky. Tripling it would be asking for disaster, yet so many do it anyway. (Binge drinking, in particular, is even more dangerous for the mind and body, and puts you at greater risk for physical harm.) 

Anyone who is hosting or attending a party needs to be extra careful. The cost of a taxi or an Uber can literally save a life. There is never, ever a reason to drive drunk! Pay attention to those around you. If someone seems unsteady on their feet, or confused, or is vomiting, they need immediate attention. I once knew someone who passed out after a wild night and tragically asphyxiated in his sleep. That sort of accident is almost entirely preventable.

And, let’s not overlook, the large number of alcoholics in every community. Individuals who are problem drinkers should not be left unsupervised while the punchbowl is full. It’s always smart to offer soft drinks and water for anyone who may need it or simply prefers it.

I don’t say all of this to be a killjoy. I say it because a fun time can turn into a tragedy in the blink of an eye. Have a glass of champagne, by all means, just don’t make it an entire bottle.