Since Purim will be here on 3/16, I wanted to share my thoughts on the subject.
Coming from a very Reform background, this holiday was barely on the radar when I was growing up—mainly as a “Jewish Halloween.” I can remember the annual Carnival at Hebrew School which included some costumes, candy, and a story about the deliverance of the Persian Jews from Annihilation. In the Orthodox community, it’s much more popular with a lot of dancing, feasting, and gift-giving. I truly don’t understand why it’s so underrepresented by the Reform—particularly the concept of giving Mishloach Manot (gift baskets).
How many of us felt excluded every April when the other kids got Easter Baskets? I know I sure did! There are many Interfaith couples that even succumb to the temptation and allow their own children to participate in Easter rituals.
That is not the answer.
We have our own Holidays and traditions, most of which we don’t even know about, let alone follow. It’s perfectly fine for Gentiles to enjoy Easter, but it’s not for us. Your Jewish child doesn’t need an Easter Basket to feel fulfilled, they need a Purim Basket! If you have a little one, I encourage you to embrace this ritual at home, starting this year! It doesn’t have to be limited to children either; adults appreciate them, too!
So, how do you create Mishloach Manot? These can be super-simple or over-the-top extravagant; it’s your choice. Usually, I just grab whatever free or cheap candy I get from couponing and put it into a little bag for Hungry Bear (my guy). Right now, I have everything shown here.
I have yet to craft gorgeous homemade baskets like these. They are amazing! The ice cream sundae kits, candy sushi, and treasure box were my favorites, but honestly every single idea listed was great. If you’re looking for healthy ideas, try sending a fruit basket or veggie tray. Diabetics and weight-watchers will be grateful.
For the bakers among us, try your hand at some homemade hamentashen.
Last but definitely not least, Purim is about charity. Donate a little something to a good cause that touches your heart, like this desperately ill Chihuahua.
Do you celebrate Purim?
i like all the food and stuff….. 😀
We’re not a religious family, but I’d be willing to try the candy baskets.
This is such a great post! We are not Jewish, but my son is in a preschool that teaches about traditions in several faiths. He frequently asks us about Jewish traditions and holidays, so I am happy to have found this so that I can better understand.
I don’t know much about the Jewish religion, so it is interesting to read about Purim here. Thank you for your explanation and description, and for sharing some how-to’s with us! Take care!
Hi, I agree that if you are from a Jewish family it’s a good idea to create your own traditions so that the children embrace their heritage and faith. If you are from an interfaith couple, couldn’t you do both an Easter and Purim basket? (depending on how faith is practiced in your home?)
Yes we do Purim! No easter here for us
great pos – love learning about different cultures and religion
Learned something new. I am not that familiar with Jewish traditions. But at least now I know what Purim is.. 🙂