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8 Expert Tips to Spring Clean Your Finances

The following post was sponsored by Axiom Bank.

Ah, spring—the time we all feel the urge to declutter and deep clean. In addition to making the house pristine, there might be another part of your life that could use a good sprucing up—your finances.

Ron Strand-Sorrell, EVP Chief Operating Officer, at Florida-based Axiom Bank explains why that’s so important and how to go about doing it. “Your income and spending can change over the course of a year, sometimes drastically. We usually take notice of the big changes, but all those little changes can add up and have a significant effect on your overall financial health.”

Follow these eight expert tips on how to spring clean your finances, and you’ll be well on your way to getting your finances in order:

1. Review your budget

When was the last time you looked at your budget? A lot may have changed since then. Now is the time to revisit your income/expenses and adjust them as needed. Try a new tech tool such as the AxiomGO mobile banking app that offers a budgeting tool, My $ Manager, to set savings goals and spending limits for various categories. The app notifies you when you’ve almost reached your limit, which is so helpful.

2. Organize your financial documents

Where do you store your bank statements and tax documents? Take a few hours to develop an organization system, whether that’s arranging documents in a plastic storage bin or creating PDFs to store on the cloud. Here’s a look at what you need to keep and what you can toss.

3. Go paperless

Save trees and cut the clutter by opting out of receiving monthly paper statements for your accounts. Less paper = less junk! Worried you’ll forget to pay your bill? Try #4.

4. Set up auto pay   

Never miss a payment. Never pay a late fee. Just be sure the money will be in your account on the dates you’ve scheduled to avoid any overdrafts. 

5. Scrutinize your credit report

You are entitled to a free copy of your credit report from each of the three credit reporting agencies every year. Look for things like old accounts you’ve forgotten to close or multiple reports of the same debt. Check for errors, too, such as information for someone with a similar name appearing on your report. Errors are actually quite common! Get a free copy here.

6. Evaluate your debt

How much do you owe? What are your interest rates? Set up a plan for paying it all off, prioritizing accounts with the highest interest rates. Be bold: Give your credit holders a call and ask for a lower interest rate. They’ve been known to do it. Or, consider transferring credit card balances to a no or low-interest rate card.

7. Examine your insurance

Are you getting the best deals on home, life and auto insurance? Have your coverage needs changed? Take a visual inventory of your belongings. Photograph all of them and record approximately how much you paid for them. Should disaster strike, such as a fire, this will be invaluable!

8. Find and eliminate hidden charges

Check your phone, internet and cable bills to see if you’re paying for services or features you don’t use. If you are, have them turned off. If you’re not using your gym membership, cancel it. And make sure you’re not being charged for expired “free trials” that aren’t useful, either. Little charges add up and eliminating what’s unnecessary can be very productive.

Axiom Bank, N.A, a nationally chartered community bank headquartered in Central Florida, provides retail banking services, including checking, savings, money market and CD accounts, as well as commercial banking, treasury management services and commercial loans for both real estate and business purposes.

The Definition of a “Throuple” & Why I’m Against It

Have you ever heard of a “Throuple?” I’m not sure if the Today show coined the term, but that’s where I was introduced to it, with a segment that featured non-traditional relationships. A “Throuple” is a couple that consists of 3 people—in this case 2 girls and a guy.

Not only do these folks share a home, but all three sleep in the same bed! If that wasn’t complicated enough, there are 3 children involved from a multitude of partner combinations, plus another on the way.

Brooke Shedd, one of the mothers, claims: “Our kids are more well-rounded, because there are three different styles of parenting that they deal with every day.”

Call me provincial, but children don’t need 3 parents, they need two—a mother and a father, ideally the biological ones that created them. Any time folks deviate from that plan, tragedy is far more likely to occur.

I feel strongly that we must look to Scripture as our guide. God is very clear about what relationships are healthy. When a man and a woman are married only to each other and are committed to raising the children they produce, the likelihood of family harmony isn’t perfect, but it’s much higher.

Living as a “throuple” with multiple partners, unmarried, all having relations indiscriminately with each other is dangerous—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

If people want to live in a group setting, that’s their choice, and everyone has free will. I, however, wouldn’t share my man with anyone, under any circumstances and I think it’s absolutely perverse.

The man is using these women and would cheat on them in a heartbeat if the opportunity presented itself and vice versa. When the bonds of monogamy are broken, how can there be any trust or security? Where is the love, the commitment, the decency? Odds are high that the “throuple” won’t go the distance.

Homemade Wendy’s Frosty Recipe (I’m Obsessed!)

Normally, I try to eat a healthy and well-balanced diet that’s low in sugar. I say “normally” because that all went out the window when I hurt my neck in an accident. In addition to being excruciatingly painful, it has really limited my mobility. (It hurts to move my head in any direction, especially trying to reverse the car; sleeping; chewing; etc.)

I’ve been stuck at home, mostly in bed or on the couch, and feeling pretty miserable. My dearest friend, who lives very far away, has been trying to cheer me up by sending me lots of new recipes. (Don’t ask me why, but I love looking at food!) This one, which recreates a Wendy’s frosty, is my favorite. (Seriously, it’s becoming an obsession.) She found the infographic on Pinterest, I think, and I’m passing it along to all the other milkshake addicts.

I used chocolate cashew milk in mine and it turned out great, so don’t be afraid to experiment. I love that it’s only 3 ingredients, super quick to prepare, and very soft.

I’ll be going back to a mostly veggies and meat diet soon, but during this rough patch, having a daily treat is a lifesaver!

Falling Down the Rabbit Hole with BunnyEars.com

What would happen if a notoriously odd celebrity decided to create a lifestyle brand that’s one part satire, one part new age guru and entirely surreal?

Why, you’d get Bunny Ears, a website and podcast started by former child star Macaulay Culkin and a variety of pals. Long removed from Hollywood, he’s spent recent years hiding from the Paparazzi, making horrifically-bad music with his cover band Pizza Underground, photographed his time with Goddaughter Paris Jackson, and fought off persistent rumors that he’s severely addicted to drugs.

As a long-time Mac fan—ever since I went to see Home Alone in the theatre for my 9th birthday—I’m glad to see he’s pursuing his art, unconventional as it may be. While the majority of the articles on Bunny Ears are written by others, he seems to be the overseer of the brand which revolves around “diet, exploration, proclivities, and upscale culture.”

I’m not sure upscale is the right word, based on this “interview” between Mac and the swarm of bees from My Girl.

For anyone around my age (over 35) who grew up watching him on-screen and has many childhood memories of those good films, Bunny Ears will provide a few glimpses of his current life and many, many laughs. Seriously, if you can get through 10 or more articles, it will be the most bizarre rabbit hole you’ve ever fallen down. You may also, however, feel pretty sad that the adorable kid grew up to be a total weirdo. Of course, if Michael Jackson is your self-proclaimed best friend, that’s not really a shocker…